Hello there
I am having the same issue. I have checked all the places I could think of, but cannot figure out how the messages are being sent to the wrong email. The only hiccup I can find is in my wp.org profile my username is set as the wrong email address.
admin page-->profile-->username-->aliciamolin@gmail.com
I would like my emails to be sent to thoughtfullyhungry@gmail.com, but they are being sent from the contact form to aliciamolin@gmail.com.
I am using Contact Form 7 and the only code I have in the page is
[contact-form-7 id="49" title="Contact form 1"]
Thank you!