By default, Jetpack automatically deativates its Open Graph Meta tags when another Open Graph plugin is active. This way, you avoid duplicate tags.
All In One SEO has recently added a new module named Social Meta that allows you to manage Open Graph meta tags on your site. As a result, Jetpack's tags are now deactivated when All In One SEO is active.
If you'd like to use Jetpack's Tags instead of AIOSEO's, you'll need to deactivate the Social Meta module in All In One SEO, and force the activation of Jetpack's Open Graph meta tags by adding the following code to your theme's functions.php:
add_filter( 'jetpack_enable_open_graph', '__return_true', 100 );
I hope this helps.