Thanks Jeremy,
My new email subscriptions wasn't working so I dumped that one and looked back at my plugins again. And you know what - I found that Bad Behaviour one... YIKES - I dumped it quickly. Reinstalled Jetpack and everything is good - I think.
I had put on Luv, and got so many spam I put on bad behaviour and that was when everything went wonky. I took off Luv too.
Sorry I didn't see it when you told me - I really looked but didn't see it. And I don't have that many plugins either.
Thanks for your patience,
Blessings,
Janis